Public apology after private footage of popular dancer spreads online
Matshidiso Shai, a lifestyle and fashion influencer also known as Matshidiso Matilda, has issued a formal apology after a private intimate video featuring her and dancer Robert Matome Thoka—popularly known as Limpopo Boy—began circulating on social media over the weekend, according to reporting published on 10 August 2026.
Shai acknowledged the material and the reaction it prompted. In the statement she accepted responsibility, expressed remorse to her husband, family and supporters, and asked for privacy while she attempts to repair the relationships affected.
“I take full responsibility for my actions and I apologise unreservedly,”
The footage first surfaced online around 9 August 2026 and spread rapidly across platforms, prompting widespread commentary, and placing both individuals under intense public scrutiny, the original report says. Robert Matome Thoka is described in the reporting as a known South African dancer, choreographer and content creator who performs under the name Limpopo Boy. Shai is identified as a married lifestyle and fashion influencer.
Apology, family and appeal for privacy
In her statement released on 10 August 2026, Shai specifically addressed her husband, Kevin Shai, apologising for the hurt caused and acknowledging the public strain placed on their marriage. She described him as her partner and support and said she regretted not fully considering the pain her actions would cause.
She also offered an apology to her family and supporters, acknowledging their disappointment and thanking friends who had reached out with support and advice. The apology accepts criticism and affirms her intention to learn from the incident, according to the published statement.
What the public should know
- The video began circulating on social media on 9 August 2026.
- Shai released a statement on 10 August 2026 taking responsibility and apologising to her husband, family and supporters.
- Robert Matome Thoka is identified in reporting as Limpopo Boy, a dancer and content creator.
There is no indication in the reporting of any criminal charges or police involvement arising from the circulation of the video. Nor does the report include comment from Thoka or from Kevin Shai.
Context: privacy, reputation and social media dynamics
The rapid spread of intimate material online can have profound consequences for private lives and careers. In this case, the individuals involved are public figures: one a content creator known by a stage name connected to Limpopo, the other an influencer with a public profile in lifestyle and fashion. The reporting notes the speed at which digital content circulates and the intense public discussion that follows when private images or clips surface.
South African law provides routes for redress where intimate images are shared without consent. Affected parties may pursue civil remedies, including an application for an interdict to remove material, and can also report non-consensual dissemination of intimate images to the police. The report did not state whether any legal steps had been taken.
Local reaction and next steps
Local observers and social media users have been divided: some have criticised the sharing and consumption of the clip, while others have focused on the personal responsibility expressed in Shai’s apology. The original account of events does not include a response from Limpopo Boy or from the Shai family beyond the influencer’s written statement.
For now, Shai’s public expression of remorse and request for privacy mark the latest development. The reporting indicates she is committed to repairing trust within her marriage and with her supporters.
| Key date | Event |
|---|---|
| 9 August 2026 | Intimate video begins circulating online |
| 10 August 2026 | Matshidiso Shai issues public apology |
As this is an unfolding matter involving private material and personal relationships, further developments may emerge if parties choose to pursue legal remedies or issue additional statements. Readers seeking assistance regarding the non-consensual sharing of intimate images can consult legal advice or contact the South African Police Service to explore available options.
Reported from Johannesburg and compiled for Limpopo readers with attention to how public online behaviour affects local communities and relationships.
